Friend a term that we use widely in life to categorize a huge spectrum of people.
From a one time acquaintance, a well wisher to someone whom we have known entire life. When we hear the word friendship we all have a bright smile on our face. It’s like a flashback to the crazy things you have done with your friends, the fights with your friends, the hangouts, ragging each other, celebrating success etc. When you look, there are many authors who have penned some quotes on friendship, some great actors who have worked on the script of friendship, recorded a song on friendship, even the god who took incarnation on earth gave the message of how important it is to have a good friend in life. Friendship is one of the biggest asset in life.
Apart from playing with friends, chilling out, shopping, going on picnics, sharing the top secret, having a drink, clicking photos there is something which proves that having some true and best friends in life is a biggest of blessings.
1)They make every occasion or event in your life an unforgettable one and make sure that you cherish those memory in your future. Example: You plan to date your girlfriend/boyfriend and they are up with tons of advices and moreover they can organize things for you to make sure you have a pleasant and an unforgettable experience.
2)With best friends you never require a proper planning, planning may be regarding anything a study on the last night of exam, a birthday celebration planning, to watch movie etc. it just happens and in the end you feel satisfied. (I guess it has happened with all of us.)
3)You can be the craziest with your best friends, be it wearing shabby clothes, eating food in an unusual manner, talking any crap thing, playing pranks, singing and dancing, no matter how bad you do it. Because you are never judged.
4)Commitment phobia doesn’t exist when you are with your best friends. There’s never that dreaded discussion about were friendship is heading.
5)They say life is all about priorities. If you are really important to someone you are their priority or else you are just an option when they are bored. You call your friend and say I want to talk something important, even if he/she is doing an important work they will keep that aside and listen to you.
6)We all have that one type of friend who will always criticize us and point out our mistakes. But when someone else talks anything about you he will stand tall to defend you. It’s like he can tell you anything but if any third party talks something crap about you he will be a warrior for you.(2 took jawab dena).
7)When you discussed your problem with them, and within minutes they were at your doorstep. “Don’t worry buddy your problem is my problem, and no problem is bigger when we are together. Let’s have some food and find a solution to it.” These words are so motivational to hear from your best buddy and it really makes you feel that no problem in world is threatening when you have best friends by your side.
8)Great things happen when we step out of comfort zone. It is your friend who will push you out of comfort zone when you are nervous. They are the ones who will MAKE YOU take those odd risks. Any new travel experience, a new proffesional course, a new startup they will just say Do IT rather than sitting and planning.
9)It is said that you can wear that fake smile and fool the whole world, but you cannot fool your best friend. They will immediately recognize it and come and have a word with you. They are the people who take you to long drives, music concerts, or an adventure when you are feeling low in mood, and suddenly invigorate you with a London thumakda level of energy.
10)We all make mistakes in life. The best kind of friends are the ones who tell you the truth as raw as it is. They are blunt people who never worry about anything else, they will simply tell you the truth in a blunt way as they see it. It is so good to have such type of friends who act like a mirror.
11)Most importantly, our parents love our best friends, and are more relieved if we say that we are there together. You know how easy that makes our lives.
It’s a fact in life that during good times hundreds of people will be with you. Eg:- You have passed an entrance exam or you have achieved something, your Facebook wall will be filled with congratulation messages, people will call you and wish, they may come personally to meet you or give an appearance at your success party.
Now, consider the opposite that you were preparing for the same entrance exam and you were very nervous and felt to give up. That was the time when your best friends stepped in and help you achieve your goal.
That’s the difference people, some friends may or may not be with us during our birthdays or any celebrating moment but when we are in trouble, we are confused they will keep in touch and help us overcome the situation. Keep in touch with such people and feel privileged to have them because it’s not every day in life that you meet such friends who loved you even when you weren’t amiable.
“Friendship is a golden thread that binds two hearts, it multiplies the good and divides the evil.”.
-Rtr. Monil Thakkar
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY.